Discussions in Grief: Permission to Grieve

Grieving involves new emotions and considerations often too many to numbers. When you find yourself in overwhelming grief, you likely feel buried and lost. In this series, we slowly and compassionately look at one aspect of grief at a time from a biblical perspective for the newly grieving mother. Click {here} to read past posts in this series.  I remember the first time I felt the guilt. It had been a few weeks since Chance’s funeral, my son who we lost at 20 weeks’ gestation, and I was alone, at home, with my two daughters, ages 15 months and 2.5 years. ...

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Holding on to His Promises

The enemy wants to come in and take your focus off of what is true. He’s waiting at your door.  He wants to pluck everything you've learned—all that God has taught you—and throw it out. And if you don’t have anything solid to yell back at him, you are going to start listening to him instead. You’re going to start believing the lies, because grief and doubt make you listen. If you aren’t leaning on God’s Word, you will get pulled toward grief and doubt, and it will cloud your vision.  You need to get into the Word of God and believe what is true about Him. ...

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In the Word: Where Hope Starts

Welcome to Hope Mommies’ In the Word devotionals. It is our desire that this series will aid you in getting in the Bible for yourself and discovering the joy that comes from hearing from God through the pages of His Word. “According to the foreknowledge of God the Father, in the sanctification of the Spirit, for obedience to Jesus Christ and for sprinkling with His blood: May grace and peace be multiplied to you.” 1 Peter 1:2 READ: While walking through this valley of grief and loss, the prospect of grace and peace multiplying in your life may seem ...

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Discussions in Grief: Waves

Grieving involves new emotions and considerations often too many to numbers. When you find yourself in overwhelming grief, you likely feel buried and lost. In this series, we slowly and compassionately look at one aspect of grief at a time from a biblical perspective for the newly grieving mother. Click {here} to read past posts in this series.  One of my favorite memories as a child was going to the coast with my parents. My mother loved to play in the ocean and we spent hours splashing in the waves. When I lived near the Gulf of Mexico, a group of us went to the ...

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Ask the Blog Team: What Would You Say to a Mother Doubting God’s Goodness in this Dark Time?

Welcome to our Q+A series, Ask the Blog Team. In this series, the Hope Mommies blog team joins together to answer questions that are commonly asked in grief. If there is a question or topic that you have wrestled with in your grief that you would like the opportunity to see how other Hope Moms have processed or answered, we would love to hear from you. You can submit your questions here. Girlfriend... thankfully our circumstances don't change God's character. It sounds so simple, but we must keep going back to the basics especially when grief overtakes our ...

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Shundria’s Story

My husband and I married in 1996. We were living in a one room apartment, and we were so poor. We had our plans. I thought we would be married for a couple of years, then we’d have babies and move into a little house with a white picket fence and a dog. In 1998, we found out I was pregnant and we were so excited. We weren’t really planning for it, but we were so excited that we were going to have a baby. We waited until we were 12 weeks before we told anybody, and we were just loving every second of it. Around 19 weeks I woke up one morning, went to the bathroom, and ...

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Discussions in Grief: Wailing

Grieving involves new emotions and considerations often too many to numbers. When you find yourself in overwhelming grief, you likely feel buried and lost. In this series, we slowly and compassionately look at one aspect of grief at a time from a biblical perspective for the newly grieving mother. Click {here} to read past posts in this series.  About two months after Max’s death, I found myself at a dear friend’s wedding. She had just danced her father/daughter dance as her husband walked out onto the floor with his mom. I felt my chest tighten and a lump form ...

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The Great Exchange

What make decisions based on our feelings—whatever feels good is what we want to do. We are driven by our feelings. We need our feelings, because we are nurturers. When something is wrong with somebody—a friend, or a person in our family—we are able to adjust to what they are feeling. If they’re not feeling good, we're not feeling good.  But what we often fail to do is apply truth to those feelings, and some of us are just addicted to feeling good. When we walk through grief and when it’s hard, all we want the Lord to do is give us a good feeling. In this place ...

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In the Word: We Are Sojourners

Welcome to Hope Mommies’ In the Word devotionals. It is our desire that this series will aid you in getting in the Bible for yourself and discovering the joy that comes from hearing from God through the pages of His Word. “Peter, an apostle of Jesus Christ, To those who are elect exiles of the Dispersion in Pontus, Galatia, Cappadocia, Asia, and Bithynia,”1 Peter 1:1 READ: Peter begins his letter by addressing the elect exiles. As believers in Christ, we can relate deeply with this phrase. On this earth, you and I are sojourners, strangers, exiles, ...

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Discussions in Grief: Serve

Grieving involves new emotions and considerations often too many to numbers. When you find yourself in overwhelming grief, you likely feel buried and lost. In this series, we slowly and compassionately look at one aspect of grief at a time from a biblical perspective for the newly grieving mother. Click {here} to read past posts in this series.  When I got pregnant, I quit my full-time job to become a part time writer and stay at home mom. Little did I know, my plan was about to be derailed. The book I had started was about body image and loving the bod God gave ...

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