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  • And If Not, He Is Still Good
  • You Don’t Have to Be Enough
  • He Restores My Soul: What Does That Really Mean?

Is He still good when our babies die? It’s a ques Is He still good when our babies die?

It’s a question many of us have wrestled with—perhaps quietly, perhaps desperately.

Because when your arms are empty and your heart is broken, “God is good” can feel less like a comforting phrase and more like a question you’re afraid to ask.

Is He good when your womb carries death instead of life?

Is He good when another pregnancy feels terrifying?

Is He good when everything you thought you knew has been ripped away?

We may never understand why some babies live and others die. We may never receive answers to every question our grief asks.

But Scripture reminds us that God's goodness isn't measured by whether our circumstances are good.

His goodness is part of who He is.

And who He is does not change when our circumstances do.

God does not promise that we will never walk through deep waters or fiery furnaces. But He does promise that we will not walk through them alone.

Mama, if you are walking through the fire today, you are not alone.

And if all you can do is hold onto the smallest thread of faith and whisper, “I don't understand, but I still want to trust You,” He is there.

If He does not answer as we prayed, He is still good.
If He does not spare us from the fire, He is still good.
If our lives look nothing like we imagined, He is still good.

Read the full blog: https://hopemommies.org/and-if-not-he-is-still-good
From representing your local Hope Mommies chapter From representing your local Hope Mommies chapter to proudly wearing the main Hope Mommies design, there’s a shirt for every part of our community!

Each design features the Hope Mommies logo and a reminder we hold close:

Because He lives, we hope.

And on the back:

“We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure.”
Hebrews 6:19

Whether you’ve found community through a local chapter, connected with Hope Mommies online, attended a retreat, joined a Hope Group, or simply found us when you needed someone who understood—you are part of this community. 🤍

✨ Which one are you repping?

Watch the reel to see all of the available chapter and Hope Mommies designs!

Preorders are open through September 30, with November delivery.

👉 Shop the collection: https://www.hopemommies.shop/product/hope-mommies-branded-collection/FE6KHE35JJAWCDLUEWDRLSXI?cp=true&sa=true&sbp=false&q=false
You can be a good mom and still be completely help You can be a good mom and still be completely helpless. 🤍

One of the hardest parts of baby loss is realizing how little was ever within our control.

We can love our babies with everything in us.
We can pray.
We can do everything we know to do.
And still, we may not be able to save them.

That helplessness can easily become shame:
What did I miss? What should I have done?

But mama, your inability to control the outcome was never evidence of your inadequacy.

You were never your baby’s Savior.
You were their mama.

You were called to love them, cherish them, and mother them for as long as God gave you together—not to control how long their story would be.

And when you couldn't hold everything together, God held you.

“For he knows our frame; he remembers that we are dust.”
Psalm 103:14 

Read the full post: https://hopemommies.org/you-dont-have-to-be-enough
What if you’re not a runner? Maybe you’re just som What if you’re not a runner? Maybe you’re just someone willing to take one more step. 🤍

In this week’s Hope Mommies Podcast, we’re talking about Miles for Hope and what it can look like to participate when “runner” isn’t a word you’d use to describe yourself.

Lindsey Calof shares an important reminder:

Running is a skill you can learn. It’s not simply something you’re either good at or not.

Maybe a 5K sounds exciting—but intimidating.
Maybe you can walk a mile but aren’t sure you could run it.
Maybe your body is healing and you need to move at your own pace.
Or maybe running isn’t your thing at all—and that’s completely okay, too.

There are so many ways to honor your baby.

But if you’re intrigued by the idea of taking on a physical challenge, we want you to know you don’t have to figure it out alone. This year, we’re offering an approachable training plan designed to meet you where you are, with opportunities to walk, run, move, build confidence, and prepare for race day.

Because there’s more than one way to cross a finish line.

And perhaps the most beautiful part? You can invite the Lord into the process—one mile, one walk, one uncomfortable step at a time—as you honor your baby and discover what you’re capable of.

🎧 Listen to this episode to hear more about the heart behind the Miles for Hope training opportunity.

Episode 76: One Step at a Time: Grief, Running, and God’s Faithfulness with Lindsey Calof 

🏃‍♀️ Miles for Hope | October 17, 2026 | Maidu Park, Roseville, CA
Virtual participation is available, too!

You don’t have to be a runner. You just have to be willing to take the next step. 🤍
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Hebrews 6:19

"We have this as a sure and steadfast anchor of the soul."

Is He still good when our babies die? It’s a ques Is He still good when our babies die?

It’s a question many of us have wrestled with—perhaps quietly, perhaps desperately.

Because when your arms are empty and your heart is broken, “God is good” can feel less like a comforting phrase and more like a question you’re afraid to ask.

Is He good when your womb carries death instead of life?

Is He good when another pregnancy feels terrifying?

Is He good when everything you thought you knew has been ripped away?

We may never understand why some babies live and others die. We may never receive answers to every question our grief asks.

But Scripture reminds us that God's goodness isn't measured by whether our circumstances are good.

His goodness is part of who He is.

And who He is does not change when our circumstances do.

God does not promise that we will never walk through deep waters or fiery furnaces. But He does promise that we will not walk through them alone.

Mama, if you are walking through the fire today, you are not alone.

And if all you can do is hold onto the smallest thread of faith and whisper, “I don't understand, but I still want to trust You,” He is there.

If He does not answer as we prayed, He is still good.
If He does not spare us from the fire, He is still good.
If our lives look nothing like we imagined, He is still good.

Read the full blog: https://hopemommies.org/and-if-not-he-is-still-good
From representing your local Hope Mommies chapter From representing your local Hope Mommies chapter to proudly wearing the main Hope Mommies design, there’s a shirt for every part of our community!

Each design features the Hope Mommies logo and a reminder we hold close:

Because He lives, we hope.

And on the back:

“We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure.”
Hebrews 6:19

Whether you’ve found community through a local chapter, connected with Hope Mommies online, attended a retreat, joined a Hope Group, or simply found us when you needed someone who understood—you are part of this community. 🤍

✨ Which one are you repping?

Watch the reel to see all of the available chapter and Hope Mommies designs!

Preorders are open through September 30, with November delivery.

👉 Shop the collection: https://www.hopemommies.shop/product/hope-mommies-branded-collection/FE6KHE35JJAWCDLUEWDRLSXI?cp=true&sa=true&sbp=false&q=false
You can be a good mom and still be completely help You can be a good mom and still be completely helpless. 🤍

One of the hardest parts of baby loss is realizing how little was ever within our control.

We can love our babies with everything in us.
We can pray.
We can do everything we know to do.
And still, we may not be able to save them.

That helplessness can easily become shame:
What did I miss? What should I have done?

But mama, your inability to control the outcome was never evidence of your inadequacy.

You were never your baby’s Savior.
You were their mama.

You were called to love them, cherish them, and mother them for as long as God gave you together—not to control how long their story would be.

And when you couldn't hold everything together, God held you.

“For he knows our frame; he remembers that we are dust.”
Psalm 103:14 

Read the full post: https://hopemommies.org/you-dont-have-to-be-enough
What if you’re not a runner? Maybe you’re just som What if you’re not a runner? Maybe you’re just someone willing to take one more step. 🤍

In this week’s Hope Mommies Podcast, we’re talking about Miles for Hope and what it can look like to participate when “runner” isn’t a word you’d use to describe yourself.

Lindsey Calof shares an important reminder:

Running is a skill you can learn. It’s not simply something you’re either good at or not.

Maybe a 5K sounds exciting—but intimidating.
Maybe you can walk a mile but aren’t sure you could run it.
Maybe your body is healing and you need to move at your own pace.
Or maybe running isn’t your thing at all—and that’s completely okay, too.

There are so many ways to honor your baby.

But if you’re intrigued by the idea of taking on a physical challenge, we want you to know you don’t have to figure it out alone. This year, we’re offering an approachable training plan designed to meet you where you are, with opportunities to walk, run, move, build confidence, and prepare for race day.

Because there’s more than one way to cross a finish line.

And perhaps the most beautiful part? You can invite the Lord into the process—one mile, one walk, one uncomfortable step at a time—as you honor your baby and discover what you’re capable of.

🎧 Listen to this episode to hear more about the heart behind the Miles for Hope training opportunity.

Episode 76: One Step at a Time: Grief, Running, and God’s Faithfulness with Lindsey Calof 

🏃‍♀️ Miles for Hope | October 17, 2026 | Maidu Park, Roseville, CA
Virtual participation is available, too!

You don’t have to be a runner. You just have to be willing to take the next step. 🤍
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